[心情] 我不是故意的

看板humanity (人性板)作者 (試過才知道)時間17年前 (2008/10/10 06:39), 編輯推噓1(107)
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我覺得這個跟英文不好也是有關係的 如果英文好一點 就會比較知道怎麼應對這件事 - - -- - - - -- - - -- - -- - - - -- - - - - -- - - - - -- - - - 話說學校好心的請了一些英文老師安排課餘的時間修正我們的作文 但這是不定時的 是自己要去找老師的 當然會選一個曾經教過自己語實的老師 省去自我介紹的麻煩 結果去找老師的時候 發現他正在利用時間學習中文 裡面有位女學生和中文讀本 老師急忙跟我說用信箱聯絡 那我也ok 4月11日 dear mr. shannon it's the letter to my uncle and auntie who live in england. i know i must have some fault on it. thank u very much Liz, Here is your correted document. If you have any questions, let me know. 嗯 當我看完了修正之後 我沒有太多想法 也沒什麼特別的問題 9月15日 dear mr. shannon, the new term is coming,do u stay in school? if so, hope we could see each other in school. Hi Liz, Did you get your document I corrected for you in April? Sure, that would be nice. 最近 Hi Liz, Thanks for your e-mail. Did you get my reply and your paper with feedback. 我覺得老師真的很需要知道這件事情耶 所以我趕快回信給他 而我的意思也是說如果可以 是希望利用他公布的時間找他 畢竟只用信箱的話應該很不好 HI, Mr. Shannon, Yes, of corse. Thank u very much.^^ In fact, i just had written some English letters. I think it wouldn't be proper to email u only for checking the writing for me. Frankly, I haven't check the time table of the new semester . If u were not busy, I would better go to ur office or do u have other idea? Anyway, hope to see u soon^^ BEST WISHES 上述內容顯然是我自high了 因為老師的回信 Liz, Unfortunately, Liz, I am a little disappointed in you. I think the conventional way of expressing gratitude is to show your appreciation directly after someone has helped you with someithing - not many months or years later! Until this afternoon, You have never thanked me for checking your letters - and that was over a year ago!!! Maybe you need to reconsider your approach with people who help you in life. Yes, you may use my office hours at any time and I will be happy to provide you with feedback on your writing. Have a nice day, Liz 救命呀~~這是怎麼一回事 我也無法辯解 因為整個過程中我真的少了一句thank u ,i appriate之類的回信 只好回信 HI, Mr. Shannon, I'm very sorry to make u feel bad. It's serious when i got ur reply this time. It's my fault that i didn't give u a reply when i had got ur email for correcting my writing, I don't mean to do it,or i needn't give u a greeting when the semester began and remind u what i haven't done. Thank u for telling me ur feelings, I'm really really sorry for it. 但我真的很無言 不想解釋太多 但老師的信實在是有點不客氣 我也只好辯解一下 而且有一種被打人喊救命的感覺 另外也同時發現 中文書信中 email這種東西是比較不正式的 當然為了表現基本禮貌 會在第一次發信的同時先附上謝謝 以備之後收到回覆時懶得再回信 當然有人會設定自動回信系統 這次的經驗我偏激一下 就是即使是形式上的也好(就像自動回覆系統) 你就告訴那些幫忙你的人你真的感謝他們感謝到想哭 人家就會覺得你很有誠意 大家偶爾都需要這些 好啦 正常一點 就是做人要好好處理每一件事情 人家寄信過來之後 立刻回個謝謝兩個字也好 也許心中一點也不想謝謝他之類的 當然心中也可以真的懷抱著那感恩的心情 這樣會比較好過一點 最後 我覺得除非老師也來一封盡釋前嫌的信 不然我應該會換個老師吧 有點不想再看到他 -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 124.8.77.230

10/10 21:09, , 1F
有時e-mail會漏信 老師可能也會擔心你到底有沒有收到
10/10 21:09, 1F

10/10 21:10, , 2F
你沒有回覆他 卻在幾個月之後又聯絡他 感覺很像是有求於人
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10/10 21:10, , 3F
的時候才想到對方 難免讓人覺得很不舒服吧
10/10 21:10, 3F

10/10 21:14, , 4F
感謝這種東西 即時回饋是很重要的 換老師吧 你應該也黑了
10/10 21:14, 4F

10/11 01:38, , 5F
以我個人經驗,如果是英國老師,個性可能比較嚴謹~你的
10/11 01:38, 5F

10/11 01:39, , 6F
信裡頭大量使用u和ur,有些教授也會覺得非常不尊重喔
10/11 01:39, 6F

12/05 15:44, , 7F
四月的信你都沒有回覆還好意思認為對方態度不好?
12/05 15:44, 7F

12/05 15:45, , 8F
現在的人是怎麼了?基本禮貌都不懂歐
12/05 15:45, 8F
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