[Mind] No is no-- just for complaining

看板EngTalk (全英文聊天)作者lyr559 (the one)時間16年前 (2009/05/29 02:58)推噓3(3推 0噓 3→)

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I apologize in advance because I am going to complain the annoying experience. In fact, I have asked how to reject the undesirable court at this board couple weeks ago and got good advice. While I thought I had clearly expressed my rejection, the undesirable guy kept trying to pursue me and eventually let me feel disgusting. For example, he tried very hard and proposed several times that he wanted to come to my place and stay with me, even though I had said NO for the first time he proposed the stupid idea. I said I won't treat any male in my place except my girl friends' boy friend or husband come with my friend because I live alone and I want to make sure of my safety. The idiot said it makes sense for my concern and then proposed he wants to come to my place to have dinner and watch TV at the next second. I can't believe it. Does a guy just ignore other's, or maybe a female's, will like this? Or maybe only that idiot has extraordinary confidence that he can make me change my mind. Even so, I don't even know where the idiot's confidence comes from. For he is a lawyer in PA, USA? So what? I have licence in TWN as well. For I am kinda old and maybe is out of the market of marriage? Then? I am not worried about that and I don't need to find an "any" male because of the stupid age reason. Even if I am, that idiot will be never an option. I even told him that I think he is just OK when he kept asking whether I feel he is handsome, of good looking, or cute. C'mon, what kind of person will ask other he has just met for the second time and keeps asking this sort of questions? In my view, only persons who are really stuip and have no confidence or persons who are sick. The guy kept getting high by himself on the topic of coming to stay in my place. He even said he will come to TWN to visit me and will stay at my home. He can do laundry and meals and clean the house for me while I work in the daytime; and we can go out to dance or to drink after I leave the office. I interrupted him and said that won't happen. I said he was overthinking, he is welcome to visit TWN though. But he still kept talking he's gonna stay with me and dreaming his plans. This really makes me upset and disgusting. I don't understand what the problems he has and make him just ignore the message of NO. A "NO" means no, just no, but nothing else, doesn't it? Moreover, that idiot tried to tempt me to say something about feelings of love or likewise to him. He said that he needs some good news from me to heal his back hurt. The other time, he said his supervisor saw him walked on the street with me (just the second time and the last time I met him) and asked whether I am his girl friend. Happily, I am just aged a bit more but not stupid. I replied I won't give any good news he wants and I won't never have any relationship with him. Also, I say "go to the hell" in my mind. In the begining, I tried to be polite because I don't want to foreigners have bad impression about Taiwanese. I tried to be patient and use the words not too sharp and hurt, but now I believe I can save my energe since the idiot can't undersatnd human words. Anyway, I complained this disgusting experience to my Korean girl-classmate and then found that idiot said and did similar things to my friend. My friend and I reached the consensus that the guy must be kinda sick. My friend is even sad than my situation because the guy is a Korean, though he was born in the U.S. She still felt shame for her country's people. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 24.0.99.146