Re: [Mind] This society?...

看板EngTalk (全英文聊天)作者lupillus時間20年前 (2004/10/22 04:13)推噓0(0推 0噓 0→)

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You should probably take the little girl to the hospital and get proof of injury the next time her father hurts her. Keep doing this to establish proof of the father's abuse. Try not to let him realize you are trying to help the little girl. If you don't have enough evidence, I am not sure if social workers will be able to take her away and put her in a foster home. I do not think speaking to the father will change his ways. People who abuse their children are usually mentally immature, and view their children as their property. What you can do is talk to the little girl when you can, preferably when none of her abusive family members are around. Help her realize that she is a good kid, and none of this is her fault, even when her family tells her otherwise. It will help her a great deal if there is someone for her to trust and confide in. Regarding the police, there is nothing you can do. The police here seem to be lazy and inefficient in general. Just try to be polite and patient I guess... (though it's really hard!) What she really needs is for someone to really BE there for her. I hope you will be able to help her, and good luck. :) ※ 引述《skyboy (江南~)》之銘言： : Yesterday, when my classmate wanted to go back from my apartement to his ap. : We were finding a little girl who was walking around my apartment.. : and it was almost 1 AM ... : Of course,we were so curious about her cuz she just putted short-shirt on : her body, and yesterday was so cold... : Then, we talked to her for a while and got some ideas abt her family.. : She told us she is waiting for her dad, and she is so afraid to stay alone in : her house...(the house looks so old and like a shed house..) : and told us her dad always hit her for no reason or when her dad got something : wrong abt the life, he always hits his little girl who is just 10 years old.. : After a while, i found she felt so cold then i was going to my room for taking : some cookies, drinks and gave her a long-sleeved shirt... : Cuz my classmate went to her house(maybe it's so impolite to get in somebody's : house, but we were just trying to find out wat's going on for her family) : it is so dirty and have a bad smelling...and just have one BED... : (seems like can't have ppl live over there..and the kid just lives with her dad : without other relatives - also mom) : for her foods, she said she just gets something to eat from fridge.. : and ..i think just like cold rice and rotten vegs. : (as my classmate said there's a VERY bad smelling in her house) : Of course, we didn't say father did something bad to his kid.. : but we were just afraid she will be hurt again... : then we called "The women and children protection association"... : then they transferred our phone to police officer.. : Well, at that moment, her father was coming back.. : and blame to her kid why now it's too late but u're still outside the house. : ......we couldn't say anything else, just told her father we were so afraid : she got hurts, that's why we stayed with her till u come back... : And guess wat... : we realized maybe it's not a good idea to call the police.. : cuz maybe her dad will balme or hit her again cuz she told something abt her : family to us. : We called the police again for asking to come here tomorrow not now, cuz maybe : it's not a good moment to talk with that dad now. : Well, i confess that we were a bit afraid for something bad happend. : cuz we were all master students. we can't make sure her dad will do somthing : to us, esp my apartment besides their house.. : Second, we did think maybe her dad will hurt her again... : so, we went to the corner of my street to tell the officer for canceling this : appointment.. : Well, guess wat again!!.. : their attitude were too mean!!.. : just told us they have to do that, and they really didn't care abt our feeling : we just said.."ok, u can get in and talk with that dad, but we really hope : that girl will not get hurts again and plez let us get in our room first, cuz : we were afraid that dad will do something bad after u guys left"... : When we were in the room, we thought a lot.. : the thing that we did...is it really good for that little girl.. : or we just gave her aother problem.. : of course, we were trying to leave our phone number to little girl.. : we told her if u get nothing to eat, u can call us, or if u have problems.. : u can call us... : And for the attitude of officer... : ...no comment to them.. : just have a bad feeling again.. : Sigh...!!. : Plez cherish ur life and ur frineds..... : and be good to everybody... : don't always complain to this world.. : cuz now, u still can DO THE COMPLAINING... : but others...how abt them?.... : Best Regards, -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 211.74.122.11