Re: [Talk] bad mood.....
I agree with bebright said,
you should have a deep conversation with your parents.
However, be careful on your words and mood,
don't make it become an argument.
Besides, one thing you have to do before the conversation is,
prepare the information that's beneficial of your viewpoints.
Tell your parents that being a doctor nowadays isn't as good as they think,
and tell them about your major's advantages and specialties.
Last but not least,
have your parents understand that your life is yours,
not theirs, neither the family's.
You are one of the family,
but the family isn't the whole of your life.
Good Luck!
※ 引述《vacahung (孤獨的一匹狼)》之銘言：
: Today,my parents came to Hsinchu from Taipei. What they wanted to say is
: nothing but reasoning me down to go back to cram school to participate
: in university test. They say"Your counsin had succeed to enter school of
: medicine,so you also need to study in school of medicine.If you don't study
: in department of medicine,it's a shame to our family.You can't lose him."
: What i want to say is "Why should i prove that i am not a butcher by studying
: medicine. Why i studying in EO is a shame to my family.The most stange thing
: is why my uncles and aunts also do their best to convince me to study in
: medicine." In their mind,being a doctor is the best profession of the
: world.Once you can't be a doctor, you just can be a begger.What a stupid notion
: !Ｉ really hope that they can get rid of this tride thought. Who can tell me
: what should i do now?
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