[cpst] Etiquette is the fundamental of dealing with affairs
Etiquette is the fundamental of dealing with affairs
Etiquette is really the fundamental of dealing with all kinds of
businesses, it's also the principle of making social contacts with others in
our daily lives. Etiquette means how polite, considerate, friendly, and
merciful one is when making social contacts with others. I think that it's a
matter of gravity, because other people often think and judge a person by how
respectful he or she is when treating others.
Whenever some people interact with each other, there must be some
feelings in this whole group, such as friendliness, affections, hatred, and the
like. Different people have different thoughts and concepts when thinking about
one thing at the same time, which are often in conflict with each other. Thus,
it is inevitable that some of them dislike, despise, or even loathe the ideas
some others have. Therefore, the only way to soothe the bad mood and atmosphere
among themselves is to raise the etiquette when treating others. Etiquette
means politeness and thoughtfulness. When one wants to be polite to others, he
or she needs to understand others more clearly, and then good conversations and
responses to display how much the one understands others could be made. It is
greatly beneficial to how they deal with those affairs.
Besides, when dealing with some affairs, the whole group members need
to make a final decision, and the compromises are thus need to be made.
Confucius said, "To restrain oneself and recover the etiquitte is benevolence".
Without etiquette, some of them always feel someone dislike or loathe
themselves, and then they will dislike and treat craftily with each other. Is
it a good result ? It must lead to the inharmoniousness of all of those who are
dealing with the affairs. With etiquette's help, all of those who are dealing
with common affairs can think more for others and diminish selfishness.
Moreover, if one is determined to behave with etiquette and without craftiness
anywhere, it would be much easier for him or her to associate with a lot of
friends and be welcomed by others. At that time, the one must have more friends
in the same camp than others. This would be a great asset of the one to deal
with the affairs of greater significance and establish his or her own
enterprise. We can say that when people deal with all affairs in life without
etiquette, the result will be seriously bad.
In conclusion, the advantages of treating others are great; one is that
it makes it easier to understand other friends' personalities more, another is
that it can lessen our selfishness and makes us think more for others and open
up our mind to propose the best ideas, still another, a person being very
polite to others is bound to have a lot of charm and charisma, which are of
much help for the one to really establish his or her enterprise and succeed.
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