Re: [Mind] fairy tale no longer exists

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I, myself, have a different perspective of love I would like to share. Love is a complex relationship mentally and physically. It is a compound of assorted feelings and some of which can be one and only, thus leads to love is exclusive and of one's will. Some say love is not about reward, which I oppose. My stance is all human behaviours has to do with amount of effort they put in and the reward they get. If the expectation of one is met, most likily they will keep going. I am not saying you will get returns of whatever you put in, but in one way or another. Since everyone perceives differently, therefore the reward of certain actions variates amount people. For example, a man gives a woman flower and a woman gives a man flower, which person do you think undergoes more pleasure? I don't believe in love on first sight but one's look does have a degree of influence on the chance of success. If the mutual affection for each other is not built before their interest fades, they will just break up. The longer a couple is together, the more common interest and thinking they share which reinforces their bond. Therefore I think love is an extention of fondness of any sorts. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 140.116.177.119
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