Re: [Ask ] How to say no to/reject undesirable …
※ 引述《teddy7777777 (teddyboy)》之銘言：
: Well, when you feel unsuitable and uncomfortable what is
: the voice in your heart? Yes, that is " NO".
: Because you are conscious of the persuation from the guy.
: Dont care much about whether you think to much.
: And you mentioned that the man was totally not your type, so
: next time when he invite you a cup of coffee all you have to
: do is refused it. It wont be any harmful. Others would be hurt
: only when you make them think they get opportunites and actually not.
: So i dont know your attitute absolutely, maybe you should ask youself,too...
: Just listen to your heart, say No when you dont want it. And if you reject
: at the begining, things will get complicate no more.
sigh, I am not saying I don't understand I have to say NO. I am saying
how to say it.
Just say "Thank you, but you are not my type"?
Make a lot of excuses to avoid any invitations?
I do not have much experience for either being pursued or rejecting court.
I am always curious how people can keep friendship after someone expressed
his court to another and was rejected.
However, I sincerely appreciate your caution. I mean it.
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