Re: [Ask ] How to say no to/reject undesirable …
看板EngTalk (全英文聊天)作者teddy7777777 (teddyboy)時間16年前 (2009/04/01 09:24)推噓0(0推 0噓 1→)留言1則, 1人參與討論串4/4 (看更多)
Well, i think i get your point now :p
You want to clarify your attitude but worried about the
subsequent relationship. Its true that to refuse somebody's requirement
is always a tough task, not to mention a court. However, maybe
that's not so complicate when you allready confirm your thought.
I dont suggest you to say something like "you are not my type"
at the begining ,especially if he haven't concede his pursue clearly.
Making excuses might be a good choice and it would be better if he
is award of those excuses are not true. Because this behavior imply that
he is not your type instead of saying it directly. Susequently, if he
doent give up and shows his court abviously then you finally have to say
those word directly.
What would it be next? still friends? be embarrassed?
come on, dont worrie about that" this is not your puzzle.
I mean this is totall decided by the person you refuse.
If he is a optimistic person he will be generous enough to
maintain the relationship with you, moreover,
become your good good good friend.
On the oppiside, if he get angry and become peculiar you might be glad that
you do not accept his persuit because this indicate the lack of his personal
attitude.
I hope i have matched your point this time :p
I think you can solve this problem smoothly and wish you to meet
your Mr.right someday.^^
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