Re: [Ask ] Which type of funeral you want?

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※ 引述《GeraldLiu (noteverywill)》之銘言： : Don't need to be a genius to realizes that everyone will die someday, its : just a matter of time, in this case, which type of the funeral do you wish to : have? : In our traditional culture, when someone died, people put his carcass into : the coffin which made by wood, find a good place in cemetery, and then, bury : the coffin into the earth and made a gravestone, it could help the offspring : of the deader know the location of their ancestor, and burn the ghost money : to him every Tomb Sweeping Days. : Because in the modern society, we don't have that more cemeteries to put the : coffins of all deader, nowadays, we have a new type of funeral called : cremation. : What cremation mean is? : Basically, it is the same as traditional funeral to put the dead bady into : the coffin, and then, take the coffin to a place called crematory to burn it. : After burning, the wood coffin become ash, but the carcass will leave bones : and skull. The family and relative of the deader will take the bones and the : skull into a figuline container, and put it in a especial tower. : It is ture that everyone will die someday, its just matter of time. So, if : that day is coming on you, which type of funeral do you wish to have? To be honest, I don't like Taiwanese style funeral. The biggest reason is the noisy, long, intricate ceremony before the cremation. I heard the purpose of these is people want to release their feelings as much as possible before their loved one turning into ash, and another reason is spirits need time to find their way to the heaven. It's maybe reasonible , but you can't deny it actually takes a lot of time and sometimes they do fake actions. For example, hiring so mebody to cry in the ceremony to express the filial piety. If you really want to say something to the dead, why not just walk by the coffin and speak out? ok, back to the question you ask. I want a cremation but I don't want my ash put in an urn. I prefer scatter it into the ocean or forest. By the way, if possible it would be better if you give my organs to others who need them. -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 140.112.212.197