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[Mind] win to lose

看板EngTalk (全英文聊天)作者 (insanity)時間15年前 (2011/01/25 16:46), 編輯推噓3(3推 0噓 14→)
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what's in it for you to win an argument? people only see what they want to see, and hear what they want to hear. often we win an argument only to lose something more valuable, such as harmony, peace, respect,or even trust. indeed, we don't need to please everyone, but under what situation should we put up with shit or rather,swallow it? That is the question! -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 220.143.60.212
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01/25 17:16, , 1F
i kinda agree with ur point, it took me quite some
01/25 17:16, 1F
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01/25 17:17, , 2F
time to understand this...
01/25 17:17, 2F
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01/25 17:23, , 3F
that is the difference between the westerner & asians
01/25 17:23, 3F
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01/25 17:24, , 4F
westerners always stand up for the right, have the
01/25 17:24, 4F
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01/25 17:25, , 5F
courage to against the wrong, meanwhile asians always
01/25 17:25, 5F
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01/25 17:29, , 6F
don't dare to address their opinion.
01/25 17:29, 6F
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01/25 17:33, , 7F
Argue for justice may bring us some loses, but maybe
01/25 17:33, 7F
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01/25 17:34, , 8F
it will gain more than we can imagine.
01/25 17:34, 8F
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01/26 03:44, , 9F
often we decline arguments only to lose something
01/26 03:44, 9F
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01/26 03:45, , 10F
more valuable, like the opportunity to review your
01/26 03:45, 10F
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01/26 03:45, , 11F
own perspectives, to understand others' views, or
01/26 03:45, 11F
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01/26 03:46, , 12F
even self-respect.
01/26 03:46, 12F
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01/26 03:46, , 13F
some arguments must be made, like some wars must be
01/26 03:46, 13F
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01/26 03:46, , 14F
fought.
01/26 03:46, 14F
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01/26 10:16, , 15F
thanks folks, as i said, the question is, what are
01/26 10:16, 15F
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01/26 10:16, , 16F
those some?
01/26 10:16, 16F
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01/27 04:54, , 17F
and THAT is the question :)
01/27 04:54, 17F
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