[Mind] can't get what's in his head

看板EngTalk (全英文聊天)作者 (小J)時間14年前 (2011/06/28 01:23), 編輯推噓1(103)
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I just finished talking with my bf in Chile. Yeah, he's a Chilean. The thing is, I don't get him completely. When I waved him goodbye in the airport, he promised me he would write me emails as long as he gets back. Now what did I get in my mailbox? One email which was the one I asked him the favor of my Spainsh translation. Nothing else. I asked him to write me, but he gave me a lot of reasons. The weather is cold there, he is depressed (and when he is depressed, he would not like to write to me), etc. What I asked for is to have the atmosphere of a relationship. If he is tired today, he could have just let me know... tell me he's tired and that's all. Would I blame him for being tired? Of course not. I think he only forgot about it. Well, if he forgets, he can make up for it by simply saying I forget! Come on, are all guys like this? Aren't he supposed to be responsible for what he has promised? I mean, if he can't do it, don't say it. Why men like to do this meaningless thing? Making girls expect something, and destroy their hope by saying nothing. He said, "I've said a lot of times I love you." I know he loves me, but I want more. I admit that I'm greedy, but I think in a relationship, he has to do more than just "saying". I mean, we are already in a long-distance relationship, shouldn't we do more than that? more than simply saying I love you? What's love anyway? -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 118.160.108.11 ※ 編輯: joy9061121 來自: 118.160.108.11 (06/28 01:25) ※ 編輯: joy9061121 來自: 118.160.108.11 (06/28 01:26)

06/30 01:01, , 1F
according to ur article, he doesn't love u
06/30 01:01, 1F

07/03 11:33, , 2F
Well. For them, love = like.
07/03 11:33, 2F

07/25 00:32, , 3F
really? but he looked so determined.
07/25 00:32, 3F

07/25 00:33, , 4F
anyway we broke up.
07/25 00:33, 4F
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