[不滿] 原來我家也是重男輕女的
看板FamilyCircle (家庭板)作者qqq9618 (小綠)時間14年前 (2010/04/03 17:11)推噓20(22推 2噓 75→)留言99則, 18人參與討論串1/13 (看更多)
我母親上個月因為某些緣故忽然過世 一切都來得很突然
今天,我洗完澡出來,聽到我爸跟我弟在討論房子過戶的事情
因為以遺產稅來說我們家應該課不到,比以後贈與來的好
我說OK阿~反正可以我跟我弟兩個人共同持有
可是,我爸卻說房子要過給我弟
我不懂,共同持有不好嗎?
但我爸就只一直說我弟是男生,以後要養家養老婆養小孩
房子當然要給我弟啊!
這個社會本來就是這樣,本來就是男生責任重大
反正我以後嫁人,我老公那邊他父母也會留東西給他
就因為我是女生,就因為我以後會嫁出去,所以我什麼都不能拿?
這是什麼道理阿?
還預設了我結婚後老公那邊也會從父母那邊拿到什麼好處
那如果我沒結婚呢?
如果我嫁的老公他家什麼都沒留下呢?
以前我媽還在的時候,她有跟我說過
以後房子給我弟,但我可以得到這棟房子市值一半的金額
當我把這樣的話轉告給我爸的時候
他竟然很不高興的回我:我都還沒有死,你就要分財產
後來
大概是看我不太高興
所以我爸又說:不動產的部分給我弟,我媽壽險的部份我們兩個平分,
以後他走了,動產的部分由我跟我弟平分
最後,還補了一句:這樣很公平吧~
其實
我不是一定要爭到什麼,我只是想要被在乎
我們一樣都是爸爸的孩子,就因為我是女生,所以我什麼都不該拿
有分給我一點,就算是施捨我的,我就應該要感謝
兒子這麼重要
那麼,當初為什麼要跟我說我對這個家來說有多重要
要我拋下一切回來家裡當一家的支柱
結果
等事情都過去了,心情也回復正常了
就跟我說:你以後要靠自己
前後落差好大
讓我有點無所適從...
既然事情走到這個地步
我也沒打算要爭取什麼
就照爸爸的意思去做吧~
我只要好好得過好自己的生活就好了!
只是
感覺真的不是很好
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