Re: [問題] 薪水大概多少才可以結婚?
看板Salary (工作職場)作者wakeup (五月天門票已售出勿來信)時間9年前 (2016/02/15 22:05)推噓46(47推 1噓 15→)留言63則, 53人參與討論串6/9 (看更多)
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看到在討論薪水vs結婚議題手癢來分享一下
已婚,與先生薪水大概實領43000元/月(每年約調一千)
兩人工作性質類似,收入差不多,乍看之下算ok
去年九月結婚,花費如下:
(1)西式喜餅43200(桃紅帽-80盒)
(2)傳統大餅10200(永安-62盒,每盒170,忘了滿多少送2盒)
(3)婚戒大概20000左右(女-一萬初;男-不到一萬)
(4)金項鍊大概20000多(幾錢而已 形式意思意思)
(5)宴客不到70000(鄉下特色庭園餐廳,每桌6千 請11桌,加飲料酒錢)
以上,計16萬多,沒婚紗沒聘金沒嫁妝沒禮金(只請很近的親友)
宴客當天就輕鬆吃飯,穿簡單的微正式衣服,沒一進二進送客這些
就從頭吃到尾也吃滿飽的...(撐)
就單純討論『結婚』真的就是看你怎麼取捨,可以弄得奢華也可以低調帶過
我是不想把錢花在結婚形式上的人,甚至只有登記都接受
婆婆在公公過世後,給了先生20萬的結婚基金,
我們在能接受的範圍內,完成了這件大事
(當然也謝謝雙方家長尊重我們的選擇以及堅持)
至於婚後開銷,各自管理自己的薪水,各自負擔自己的生活開銷
一起提撥努力還房貸中(鄉下中古屋大樓)
但謝謝先生每月多提撥一些支付水電瓦斯管理費
還有蜜月又是另一件事了。
結論:有多少錢做多少事,也沒什麼事是『絕對』或是『一定要怎樣的』
但結婚要找一個能相處一輩子的才是關鍵:)
希望能幫到原po,下台一鞠躬。
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