Re: [Mind] people skill

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Why do people hate being fake but are still stuck on it? If I really don't like it, advoid it. Be a person whose act is consistent with his thought. Yes, it's difficult to be that. No one doubts. Don't be a fool that people do not understand what's my intent. We are naturally sensitive to responses that if the other is sincere or not. Any hesitation of me shows in my face. (I'd read a report that a true smile invokes different pieces of muscles from those of a fake smile.) Since we cannot live without others, politeness is inevitable. To act with least fakeness is to be the one that embrace love. What's on my mind about treating others well? Is it becasue they will return me well in the future (indeed, it's a law), or because I can make them better? If the first one were mine, I would keep complaining of not getting what I should have. The universe will response me depending on what I think. I cannot obtain what not belonging to me. I can lose nothing except integrity or myself. Remember that Person of the Year in 2006 selected by Time magazine is YOU. Be a true you and your shine hide nowhere. Like Bruce Lee, one of my admirer, he had a bad personality (at least I don't like), but he realized he just wanted to be himself. He was so persistent to be himself that we today still feel his invicibility. Fear is the emermy we face, not people's judgement. It's a rocky journey to be there any goal I want, but isn't it complete me? This is my own truman show and others are just audiences. I am acting myself and this is the only stage because there's no second one. ※ 引述《zofloya (insanity)》之銘言： : sometimes it's not about how able you are, : but how active you are. : it's people business out there. : you can't work alone while expecting to be noticed or appreciated. : Seldom is a person as able as you indispensable. : however, a person with connections or people skill is always desired : to work with, it saves trivialities or annoying formality if working with him. : On the other hand, being a people person usually requires you to put on : a mask more often. A fake smile, an insincere nodding, a pretentious gesture : and an affected conversation can often confuse you about who you really are. : of course, some supervisers can also appreciate your straightforward : corrections or criticisms. But, you don't want to risk it, do you? -- ※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc) ◆ From: 123.195.4.82